10+ People Share How Their Friendships Broke

Friends change.

Sometimes they leave us, or we leave them no matter how much we don’t want it to happen, It happens. Yes, it hurts immensely when our dear friends ghost us or aren’t there for us when we need them but what can you do except for moving on?

We can’t stop ourselves or them from changing, so we just accept the loneliness and are left with the old memories. Following are 25 stories told by Reddit users who explain how they lost their ‘best-friend.’

#1 Death of her son.

I lost my friends when my son died. Instead of being supportive, they harassed me to come out drinking, or go to the bar.

Like I had just been through a breakup and needed to go out. No, literally 24 hours ago I buried my baby in the ground.

#2 Jealous matchmaker.

I set a good girl friend up with a close guy friend. Then he started cheating on her, so I told her the truth. When she finally confronted him, his actually replied with:

“Don’t listen to her. She’s just jealous. Just played matchmaker to get closer to me.”

The worst part? She believed him. So did my circle of friends on her side and his side.

I never quite got over that.

#3 The past.

When I realized the only thing we had in common was the past. That sucked.

#4 Other moms.

She had a baby, and then one day we were having lunch and she told me “You know, I only want to hang out with other moms from now on.”

I didn’t quite get the hint, but she ignored all my texts and emails for a few months and I finally realized what she was trying to tell me back there.

#5 The memories.

My best friend ghosted on me. We met in 3rd grade and were thick as thieves until I went to college. While I can recognize I wasn’t the greatest friend always, it was 100% her choice to stop being my friend.

I admit- it still hurts nearly a decade later. I never got closure, and I doubt I ever will. I’m not sure she has thought out why or would give me the honest truth if I asked.

She should have been my maid of honor, and it makes me really sad when I think of that. I try to remind myself that she caused drama for me- she was really passive aggressive and wouldn’t talk to me when I did something to bother her.

She also never opened up to me about anything bothering her in other aspects of her life. I don’t need that back in my life.

But I do miss the great times we had- all the inside jokes, the way we knew what was on each other’s minds- we absolutely killed at the game taboo! – and I have never gotten that close with anyone again.

But I did read a really beautiful sentiment recently, which I will try to capture here. The people you have in your life grow and occupy space in the tapestry that makes up your life.

When they are gone, it makes a hole where they used to be. The memories and love are still there and may always be there. So don’t look at your tapestry as filled with holes- look at it as your own unique lace pattern.

The pattern isn’t over, but it is constantly changing. The pain of loss doesn’t ever really go away, but it does lessen over time.

#6 Cheating.

Walked in on him moments after he was finished having sex with my (now ex) girlfriend in my room

Karma was nice though: he blew out his knee and can no longer play his sport professionally, I lost a lot of weight, and she found most of it.

#7 Cat abuse.

His drug using girlfriend who was on probation stole $300 from me and abused my cat. My former friend refused to believe she could do such a thing and got pissed off at me about it. We’d been friends for 20+ years.

#8 Syringes.

Let him move in because of issues at his home. Started missing money and found used syringes IN MY SHOES.

#9 Maid of honor.

She flipped and went super saiyan because I had the audacity to make plans with another friend, and invite her. Instead of making plans with her first then inviting my other friend.

She then pinned me to a chair and started screaming in my face. Thats the day I fired my maid of honor, and booted her from my life. She then smashed my car window that night.

#10 Fired.

I fired him. Not as my friend – I employed him to help him out, and ended up needing to let him go. He wants nothing to do with me now.

Don’t work with friends.

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