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This Couple Was Together For NINE YEARS Before The Boyfriend Ghosted On Her For Getting Caught Cheating

This girl had been together with her boyfriend for nine years.

They were even slated to get married soon. The boyfriend had asked the woman’s father, someone who was dying of cancer, if he could marry her. But then, she found the boyfriend’s secret, a dirty little thing that he was desperately trying to hide for almost a decade.

But, I’ll just have the girl tell the story instead.

I was ghosted by my boyfriend of nine years after I found out he had another girlfriend and got another girl pregnant.

My ex-boyfriend and I had been together nine years and in a long-distance relationship for two years.

He never seemed into social media. He told me he had no interest in Facebook or Instagram.

Last weekend, after a few glasses of wine, I decided to search his name on Instagram.

Sure enough, there was a relatively active profile with his photos. I decided to look at his tagged photos and saw someone had tagged him in a photo of two plates with the caption, “Sunday Brunch Vibes.”

I found photos of the two of them on dates, vacations and with other couple friends.

Upon looking at the original poster’s profile, I found photos of the two of them on dates, vacations and with other couple friends.

Obviously, I was furious, so I called him. No answer. I texted him that it was an emergency. He called me back, and I told him I knew everything. He said he would call me right back, and then, he hung up.

But that’s not where the story ends.

Then, I messaged the girl in the photos to tell her who I was. I assumed she didn’t know about me.

Turns out, she did but had been told by my ex that he and I had broken up after a vacation we took earlier in the year.

She told me I wasn’t the first person to reach out to her. A girl had messaged her a few months ago to say she had met her boyfriend (my ex, now) on Tinder. She was pregnant and was looking for answers. My ex had ‘ghosted’ her.

So yeah, she wasn’t the first

After exchanging more and more information, I decided to make the road trip home to confront him. He wasn’t responding to calls or texts.

After speaking with him in person, it was clear we needed to end things, but me being the hopeless romantic I am, I said I would think about what to do next. Break up or try to forgive him? I was so hurt.

So I wrote him a text later, saying that I needed to know things were going to be different. I wanted him to prove he was going to be faithful.

I wanted him to prove he was going to be faithful.

After our talk, I agreed to give him a second chance. When I did that, I agreed to going to his work holiday party on Friday.

And then the ghosting started

I drove all the way home, got ready, and called/texted him. He was really short with me then stopped responding.

What was probably a nearly decade long story of happiness ended in a very brutal, hard note.

Later that night, I reached out to the other woman (the one from Instagram) only to have her tell me that he went to the event with her after all.

He hasn’t responded to any of my texts or calls since that night. I shouldn’t have entertained the idea of giving him another chance. He had already shown me who he was.

You can tell just by how he’s behaving, and how he disappeared on someone he knew for over nine years that this guy’s a textbook psychopath. Hell, it’s downright abusive, and a woman’s shared the harrowing texts she got from her abusive boyfriend before, but this is completely different.

And it’s in no way any better.

All of this was put forward anonymously at EliteDaily.com 

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