It was #MaybeHeDoesntHitYou tag that explained and outlined all the emotional abuse women faced at the hands of their male partner. Maybe it will sound familiar to you, someone who is terrible to a friend of yours, and you think they’re abusive, but she says to you “At least he doesn’t hit me.” or something along those lines.
It’s called gaslighting and it is just as bad as physical harm. You can’t protect yourself from it, and it damages your relationships with everyone, and no one believes you. It’s invisible. According to a study by Parity, a shocking 40% of all domestic violence victims are male. What’s worse is that no one takes them seriously.
Male victims of emotional and physical abuse at the hands of their female partners are often neglected and put down. So, a hashtag similar to the aforementioned one began to trend, this time, #MaybeSheDoesntHitYou.
https://twitter.com/unlikely_lover/status/972195239233400832?s=20
#maybeshedoesnthityou but she constantly tells you that youre worthless, weak, deserve to be cheated on, and are lucky to have someone like her to even choose you
— Jordan (@_KCOVA_) March 28, 2018
The #MaybeSheDoesntHitYou hashtag is really important. #MaybeSheDoesntHitYou but she makes you responsible for her happiness and when you put your own health first she harms herself so that “he will talk to me”.
I still wake up screaming some nights. Abuse stays with you.
— Andrew Martin Lee (@TransiantArt) March 27, 2018
#maybeshedoesnthityou but she threatens to hurt herself if you leave her.
— ya boi Sam (@samthem3m3) March 27, 2018
#maybeshedoesnthityou but if she makes you feel horrible or insecure becasue of your looks or personality or anything else, shes not worth the time
— three owls in a trench coat sHH DONT TELL ANYONE (@Insomniparty) March 25, 2018
#maybeshedoesnthityou but she tries to tell you who you can and can’t have in your life and she likes to say it’s out of love
— Josh (@nacc_arato) March 20, 2018
#maybeshedoesnthityou but she makes you feel guilty for not reading her mind and tries to “teach you a lesson” by pretending to break up with you
— плАчу за вас бесплатно без смс (@nekomell) March 12, 2018
#maybeshedoesnthityou but she turns your few friends against you leaving you alone and complete helpless.
— ?Certified Strawberry Hunter? (@lame_antics) March 9, 2018
#MaybeSheDoesntHitYou but she threatens to leave you, saying you’ll never find someone like her and she is holding herself back for you
— Kaitlynn Smith (@godemonpanda) March 9, 2018
#maybeshedoesnthityou But she will leave with your dog and disappear for a day and a night making you fear what she may have done.
— Caitlover (@Caitlover1) February 14, 2018