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15 Reasons Why People Cheat on People They Love

  • By Aneeb
  • June 29, 2017
  • 6 minutes read

Have you ever been cheated on by anyone?

A real relationship requires both persons to stay loyal to each other and care about their feelings. Cheating on the other is non-acceptable no matter what.

Sadly, staying loyal is not the option in many people’s dictionary. They are bound to break their trust and forget about the commitment they made and eventually break up.

Here are 15 reasons why people cheat on their loved one.

#1. They don’t want to settle yet.

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When the relationship is moving too fast people tend to panic and use cheating as a means to escape

#2. They start feeling insecure about themselves

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They constantly require confirmation and it’s not necessary that it comes only from you. Such people require constant reassurance and that’s why when anyone shows interest in them, they instantly fall for them. They get insecure about their personality.

#3. They are not happy with what they have.

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Some people tend to be disloyal as it gives them an opportunity to sneak out of the misery in their life. Even when they are in love, they become unhappy. As a result, they make the wrong decisions and regret it.

#4. They don’t even love you anymore.

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Sometimes love carries an expiry date. It has no guarantee. Maybe the person who loves you today would not love you tomorrow. Once the feeling of love goes away, you will have to deal with it all on your own.

#5. They have knowledge of polygamy.

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For them, being in more than one relationships at one time is not a bad thing. On the outside, it may seem that he loves you, but on the inside there may be someone else.

#6. They feel unattended.

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Some people have an inside craving for a lot of attention. So if they ever feel being cut-off, they strike up for attention. In this state, they would cheat on you without even a little bit of shame.

#7. They are looking for sexual attention.

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It doesn’t matter if your partner loves you deeply but at times, your partner may demand some diversity in bed that you fail to give them or are uncomfortable doing so. Due to this, they engage in adultery with other people and ultimately leaving you.

#8. They enjoy the pleasure of pursuing.

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Some people love being chased after. They find pleasure in this. They just love it when they know that someone has an interest in them but this emotional state leads them to taking wrong decisions.

#9. They use cheating as an excuse to break up.

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 Even if they are deeply in love with you, they choose to cheat and end things with you. They don’t really have a reason so they use cheating as an excuse.

#10. They are unhappy in bed.

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There are lot of chances that you are not able to satisfy them in bed or perhaps you’re not good enough for them. This is one of the factors that defines loyalty to your partner.

#11. They are emotionally dissatisfied.

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If you are unable to satisfy them emotionally, they might find it somewhere else.

#12. The excitement has vanished in your relationship.

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Your relationship with your loved one is so perfect that the smoothness and glimmer which was once there, has vanished now. Now that there is no excitement left in the relationship, so they look towards cheating as an excuse to end the relationship. And this won’t stop the pleasure seekers from sabotaging the relationships.

#13. They are sex addicts.

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Like drugs, your partner is addicted to sex. This is a serious disease that takes over their state of mind. Sex addicts have no fear in sexual activities with anyone they might find attractive and cheat on you without any guilt.

#14. They are in love with someone else.

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It may seem like their love for you has faded away or perhaps they have feelings for someone else. Someone who fulfills their needs better than you do.

#15. They are eager to know about new experiences.

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When a person gets bored, they have a desire for something new and fun, which ultimately leads them to cheating. They just want to do something exciting in life and you either have no time for that or you are not interested.

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Having affairs outside your relationship is a mix of desire and a real connection but it is more about sex or love or fulfilling their emotional needs.

How do you suspect your partner of cheating?

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The signs of cheating are not the same as fraud but even without evidence, people admit that they have been cheating on you.

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Human perception is completely biased. Any change in behavior can be explained in various ways. If you blindly trust your partner, you might miss signs of disloyalty and if you feel suspicious, you will find evidence of cheating in everything.

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A cheating partner will exploit your desire of loyalty towards them. The warnings are un-deniable but these symptoms vary from relationship to relationship and you should not ignore them.

Your suspicion helps the cheater.

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Your suspicions will give a signal to your partner that something is wrong. A cheater’s worst nightmare is getting caught. If your partner gets to know about your suspicions, they will try very hard to hide their affair.

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